gatekeeping in non-monogamy
Is it possible for marginalized people to gatekeep? Is it possible to be “racist” against white people? Or does the institutionalized nature of these systems disrupt that? This is a semantic argument. It’s possible to be biased or prejudiced against people in positions of power, sure. Is it gatekeeping?
hating your exes is straight culture
This past weekend I made, what I thought, was a silly little reel on Instagram where I said “hating your exes is actually straight culture, and no I will not be elaborating on that.” Then the comments came in…
grief and queerness on mother’s day
This year I am thinking about the very queer lives my mother and grandmother led. (They were both straight.)
i just blogged in my mouth a little bit…
A little tiny blog about blogging on a blog… blog.